How to Be Friends With Benefits With A Married Man
Friends with benefits relationships can be quite rewarding. You can have fun and enjoy being around someone else. Anyone can be a friend with benefits, but there is something enjoyable about having a friend with benefits who is a married man. An FWB relationship with a married man is slightly different and today we are going to look at some tips for that.
Look in The Right Places
Looking in the right places is important to actually finding a married man who is interested in a friends with benefits relationship. One of the most traditional places to look for any friends with benefits is the bar. This can be great for looking for someone who is married because if they show up at the bar and are willing to flirt, they are likely interested in hooking up and maybe a FWB relationship.
Another key place to look is a FWB dating site such as FWBdatingonly. Such a site will have plenty of people looking for a FWB relationship. It is easy to use these sites because you don't have to filter through people who are looking for a traditional relationship.
The last key place to look is on a website designed for affair dating. These sites will specifically help you find married men who are only looking for something casual.
Choose the Right Partner
You will often have a lot of options when looking for a FWB on a dating site. Even in person some people can find a place where they will have a fair amount of options. No matter how many options you have, don't be too quick to jump into a FWB relationship. Make sure that you take the time to find a partner that you can enjoy. A partner that will respect you.
Also make sure that the person is discrete, willing to be sensible, and is the right kind of match for you. For example, if you want to have a FWB relationship with someone whose wife has said it is okay, make sure to search for someone who has that permission.
Talk With Him
One of the most important things you can do at the start of a FWB relationship is to talk with your partner. This is especially true with a married man. One of the things that you are going to want to discuss is when and how you can contact him. A lot of married men will only want contact at certain points and will not want you saying specific things over text message.
Another thing to discuss is whether or not you will hang out outside of the home. Some FWBs will go out and enjoy time in different places but a married man may not want that. Discussing these kinds of things is essential to make sure the FWB relationship works.
Be Open
Married men might have requests that will help them to maintain a friends with benefits relationship. Be open to any requests they make as long as they are safe and can be enjoyed.
Also, in general be open to trying new things. Married men have experience a lot of situations where the sex is just the same. Trying something new gives them the ability to further spice up their sex life. They might even ask for something you have never heard of, be open to trying it.
Don't Ask About The Wife
One of the biggest mistakes that you can make is to start asking about the married man's wife. Even if the wife is aware of the relationship, talking about her is almost always off limits. Even if you are curious. Keep conversation about the encounters and about things that are more neutral in topic.
The same goes for the rest of his life, let it be a secret. That is going to be fairly normal for FWB relationships anyways but with a married man, there is likely to be more secrets. Return that and keep most of your life a secret.
End it When Catching Feelings
Almost everyone who looks for friends with benefits will have some point when they start to catch feelings. If this happens when you are in a FWB relationship with a married man it can be very dangerous. Instead of seeing what happens, end the relationship and move on to another.
With the three places above to look for a new FWB relationship, it shouldn't be hard to find a new partner relatively quickly.
Ending a relationship, even a FWB one can be upsetting or not fun. Keep in mind that because he is married that your relationship is only temporary. It is going to end at some time anyways. Do not be afraid to end the FWB hookups when you have feelings or if something else comes up.
Don't Talk Specifics
You might be tempted to talk about your FWB relationships and that is fine. But when you do talk about your relationship do not use anything specific. Do not even describe really how your partner looks. Most importantly do not say that your FWB partner is married. You don't want them to see your partner by accident and know they are married.
If you can though do not say anything about your partner but in some groups it can be very rewarding to talk about a FWB.
Keep Safety in Mind
FWB relationships are supposed to be discrete but that doesn't mean that you shouldn't keep safety in mind. You want to make sure that you meet in a public place when you are first meeting and then move somewhere private. Be careful how much information you give out and when. Take all of the normal safety measures that you would for any other relationship.
Being in a friends with benefits relationship is typically pretty easy. Even with a married man. The main difference is that you need to be aware that you are with a man who has another partner and be prepared to accommodate that. As long as you do that, you will have one of the most enjoyable experiences.